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Post by Deleted on Jan 12, 2018 0:28:58 GMT
lol did you unfriend me as well? well over a year ago I think. Different reason than to Fig, though like I said, I have a quite specific criteria for facebook 'friends'. No Problem Andrew! |
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Post by Andrew on Jan 12, 2018 0:32:09 GMT
well over a year ago I think. Different reason than to Fig, though like I said, I have a quite specific criteria for facebook 'friends'. Wow, really? I've never ditched anyone.....I always found the whole idea quite funny actually of getting dumped, or dumping someone.....Interestingly enough, yours is the first DE-friending I've been subject to since being on facebook.  I've been defriended loads of times lol, and I've also defriended quite a bit. Even though I spend time on facebook and it is useful for me in its own way, I sometimes remember a time, just a few years ago, when I only turned on a computer 3 or 4 times in 6 months. I feel pretty sure there will come a time when folks lose interest in social media, and connecting through computers, and I won't be sorry at all. But for now, I am part of it. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 12, 2018 0:35:10 GMT
well over a year ago I think. Different reason than to Fig, though like I said, I have a quite specific criteria for facebook 'friends'. Wow, really? I've never ditched anyone.....I always found the whole idea quite funny actually of getting dumped, or dumping someone.....Interestingly enough, yours is the first DE-friending I've been subject to since being on facebook. When people go away from me, no matter whether it's in life or on the Internet, I gladly send them off!😊 |
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Post by Figgles on Jan 12, 2018 0:38:26 GMT
Ok & fair enough. I get it. The bolded line and everything you say above there though, seems to me to be somewhat at odds. If you didn't think I was being hard (judgemental, critical) of your views, you wouldn't care what I saw, would you? You aren't being 'hard on me', you're just doing what you have to do right now in both challenging me and defending your points. I'm doing the same. I know I unfriended you, but the reasoning is quite practical, I don't have a grudge. We just have to play this out right now, and explore it. It is what it is. You fear that your personal actions, stuff you say and do would get shared here and used to further challenge you and to augment my point. If you didn't feel I was being kind of hard on you, I can't imagine why that would matter. But, whatever...you seem to have a strong interest right now in portraying yourself as A-okay with it all. |
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Post by Figgles on Jan 12, 2018 0:40:10 GMT
I've been defriended loads of times lol, and I've also defriended quite a bit. Drama! Hypocrisy!  |
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Post by Figgles on Jan 12, 2018 0:41:19 GMT
Wow, really? I've never ditched anyone.....I always found the whole idea quite funny actually of getting dumped, or dumping someone.....Interestingly enough, yours is the first DE-friending I've been subject to since being on facebook. When people go away from me, no matter whether it's in life or on the Internet, I gladly send them off!😊 I hear ya....me too.  |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 12, 2018 0:42:30 GMT
When people go away from me, no matter whether it's in life or on the Internet, I gladly send them off!😊 I hear ya....me too. Let's be on the flow yar figgles! 😊 |
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Post by Andrew on Jan 12, 2018 0:42:46 GMT
I've been defriended loads of times lol, and I've also defriended quite a bit. Drama! Hypocrisy!  |
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Post by Andrew on Jan 12, 2018 0:48:11 GMT
You aren't being 'hard on me', you're just doing what you have to do right now in both challenging me and defending your points. I'm doing the same. I know I unfriended you, but the reasoning is quite practical, I don't have a grudge. We just have to play this out right now, and explore it. It is what it is. You fear that your personal actions, stuff you say and do would get shared here and used to further challenge you and to augment my point. If you didn't feel I was being kind of hard on you, I can't imagine why that would matter. But, whatever...you seem to have a strong interest right now in portraying yourself as A-okay with it all. Sigh...you really do so often insist that your way of expressing things, is specifically how I am experiencing them. I don't think or feel you are being 'hard on me', it's just not like that. In order to feel that 'someone is being hard on me' I would probably have to see them as a kind of bullying parent or something. I definitely don't feel like that about you lol. |
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Post by Figgles on Jan 12, 2018 2:50:34 GMT
You fear that your personal actions, stuff you say and do would get shared here and used to further challenge you and to augment my point. If you didn't feel I was being kind of hard on you, I can't imagine why that would matter. But, whatever...you seem to have a strong interest right now in portraying yourself as A-okay with it all. Sigh... you really do so often insist that your way of expressing things, is specifically how I am experiencing them.
I don't think or feel you are being 'hard on me', it's just not like that. In order to feel that 'someone is being hard on me' I would probably have to see them as a kind of bullying parent or something. I definitely don't feel like that about you lol. "hard on you" really isn't all that specific. It most certainly includes the degree of challenge that makes you feel uncomfy enough about the possibility of further and deeper challenge, that you'd feel the need to shield your facebook wall postings from me. |
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