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Post by Gopal on Mar 5, 2021 6:27:36 GMT
It looks like that, eh?  When I changed the forum settings, She told me to play around it, she encouraged me at that time, she did not even show up a little sadness, infact I sent the personal message by asking whether she bothers the setting changes since I made it without the consent of her, she replied me that it's absolutely not a problem and asked me to explore more. Now she is telling me that I have done that without her consent so it bothered her and due to that, she has removed certain power. You know exactly what happened is I have created a forum and when she came there, rowan talked so differently and because of that it made her upset a lot and realized the mistake of creating a forum in which she is not in ultimate control from that moment onwards she started thinking of coming back to gab,once Enigma sent the message that let's back up things from there, she completely started convincing me to come back here, since I refused in the beginning, she came here and removed my admin power and also she doesn't want the colour settings which was created by me because she thought anyway I am not returning to this forum why to keep the settings which I have set here. These are all complete ego play! Yesterday I was expressing my disagreement with someNothing without expressing any anger, but she started telling me that I am arrogant, don't know what has happened to her in these days. Now I am thinking we should have continued there in our new forum. 'zok man. You'll find folks to talk about this stuff if that's what you want.  Ultimately, we have to accept people, exactly as they are. It can be sad when you fall out with people you were tight with at one time. Regardless of what we realize, or how good we get at creating, we're all only human, for as long as we're drawing breath. I am perfectly okay now. I am not even irritated but just saying what I am observing what she is doing. I am finding that she is highly insecure person. |
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Post by Gopal on Mar 5, 2021 6:30:07 GMT
That's different case, there you are having the power to choose to play or not, but here in reality, you have to play this game and you would be having no choice over it. So, your personal creator-entity is the cause of gravity but doesn't have a choice about what his wife's emotions?  .. hmm .. yeah, that sound about right. Who is talking about personal creator-entity? I am not proposing any such entity for your information. If I am, then I can move the mountain, I can replace the sea with mountain and mountain with sea. |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 5, 2021 15:56:14 GMT
'zok man. You'll find folks to talk about this stuff if that's what you want. Ultimately, we have to accept people, exactly as they are. It can be sad when you fall out with people you were tight with at one time. Regardless of what we realize, or how good we get at creating, we're all only human, for as long as we're drawing breath. most emotions are just temporary events  but ya know, I still haven't spoken to my brother.. so temporary can last a while apparently |
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Post by muttley on Mar 5, 2021 19:36:58 GMT
'zok man. You'll find folks to talk about this stuff if that's what you want. Ultimately, we have to accept people, exactly as they are. It can be sad when you fall out with people you were tight with at one time. Regardless of what we realize, or how good we get at creating, we're all only human, for as long as we're drawing breath. most emotions are just temporary events but ya know, I still haven't spoken to my brother.. so temporary can last a while apparently Can't choose your family. |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 5, 2021 19:53:38 GMT
most emotions are just temporary events but ya know, I still haven't spoken to my brother.. so temporary can last a while apparently Can't choose your family. I bet we both have Neanderthal dna |
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Post by muttley on Mar 5, 2021 20:02:35 GMT
Can't choose your family. I bet we both have Neanderthal dna Hey, what can I say. Granma's biological clock was tickin'.   |
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Post by Figgles on Mar 6, 2021 3:05:24 GMT
It looks like that, eh? When I changed the forum settings, She told me to play around it, she encouraged me at that time, she did not even show up a little sadness, infact I sent the personal message by asking whether she bothers the setting changes since I made it without the consent of her, she replied me that it's absolutely not a problem and asked me to explore more. Now she is telling me that I have done that without her consent so it bothered her and due to that, she has removed certain power.Nope. You clearly misunderstood what i said. Yes, I found it a bit odd at the time, when after I invited you to help me moderate my new forum that you took that initiative without first asking, but at that time, I did ultimately appreciate the input. I figured it was just your enthusiasm showing and I saw it as kind of endearing actually that you were so excited to be part of things. But I DID remember that happening the first time, and this time around, I wanted to choose the colors/style for my forum and keep them that way. Ah...you are confirming my suspicions that you were pissed when I started digging into and posting data/traffic numbers and suggesting it made more sense to continue on here. Just in case you are interested, that is YOUR ego, fully engaged and in play. Something seemed off to me when you outright ignored so many of my posts as I tried to engage you in conversation about that. Fwiw, Rowan and I were already not seeing eye to eye here on this forum. Our disagreement was a carry-over from here, not something new that cropped up there. Your suggestion that he 'made me upset a lot,' is silliness. Had your forum actually taken off I would have been more than happy to stay there. It didn't and I had several people in the know, tell me that in the long run, the vast differential in terms of thread/post count between forums, meant this one would for some time be the recipient of the highest traffic. You had an idea about creating a new forum with a name that you thought would create a whole lot of traffic quite quickly. You were wrong. Not a huge deal, but I know you don't like being wrong...ego never does.
You are absolutely free to continue on with your forum. I actually think it's a good idea to keep it going simultaneously with this one....keep posting there....I will too... and I told you how I got some new guests to come to this forum....try it. |
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Post by Figgles on Mar 6, 2021 3:12:12 GMT
So, your personal creator-entity is the cause of gravity but doesn't have a choice about what his wife's emotions? .. hmm .. yeah, that sound about right. Who is talking about personal creator-entity? I am not proposing any such entity for your information. If I am, then I can move the mountain, I can replace the sea with mountain and mountain with sea. But you DO say you create your own reality and you've shared that you have a very special technique that you've discovered to do so, no? Just curious, why didn't you/don't you use that to create the busiest forum you've ever engaged on? How do you see the events that have recently unfolded between you and I and the return to this forum from the one you created..? I'm guessing according to your LOA beliefs, something went amiss there for you in terms of 'manifestation'? I'd be curious to hear how you frame it all. |
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Post by Gopal on Mar 6, 2021 6:28:59 GMT
It looks like that, eh? When I changed the forum settings, She told me to play around it, she encouraged me at that time, she did not even show up a little sadness, infact I sent the personal message by asking whether she bothers the setting changes since I made it without the consent of her, she replied me that it's absolutely not a problem and asked me to explore more. Now she is telling me that I have done that without her consent so it bothered her and due to that, she has removed certain power.Nope. You clearly misunderstood what i said. Yes, I found it a bit odd at the time, when after I invited you to help me moderate my new forum that you took that initiative without first asking, but at that time, I did ultimately appreciate the input. I figured it was just your enthusiasm showing and I saw it as kind of endearing actually that you were so excited to be part of things. But I DID remember that happening the first time, and this time around, I wanted to choose the colors/style for my forum and keep them that way. Ah...you are confirming my suspicions that you were pissed when I started digging into and posting data/traffic numbers and suggesting it made more sense to continue on here. Just in case you are interested, that is YOUR ego, fully engaged and in play. Something seemed off to me when you outright ignored so many of my posts as I tried to engage you in conversation about that. Fwiw, Rowan and I were already not seeing eye to eye here on this forum. Our disagreement was a carry-over from here, not something new that cropped up there. Your suggestion that he 'made me upset a lot,' is silliness. Had your forum actually taken off I would have been more than happy to stay there. It didn't and I had several people in the know, tell me that in the long run, the vast differential in terms of thread/post count between forums, meant this one would for some time be the recipient of the highest traffic. You had an idea about creating a new forum with a name that you thought would create a whole lot of traffic quite quickly. You were wrong. Not a huge deal, but I know you don't like being wrong...ego never does.
You are absolutely free to continue on with your forum. I actually think it's a good idea to keep it going simultaneously with this one....keep posting there....I will too... and I told you how I got some new guests to come to this forum....try it. I have had no wish to create any forum, I will never have any wish to create any forum. Since Reefs was suppressing us, your initiation towards new forum made me like it very much. But at one point in time, I realized that this forum guest count was low, so I thought that the name of the forum is somehow making people identify the forum, that's the only reason I thought of creating the forum, nothing else. Even right now, I am perfectly okay to engage in ST, it was actually good place because many people keep on showing up(even though only few people are actually arguing) but I want a freedom to speak but I sense that I somehow am missing there. But actually in the time of Peter, I somehow find that it was full of fighting and writing nonsense but in the time of Reefs, forum seems to be Peaceful but too much of suppression so I don't want to go there unless I find some highly interesting post come along the way.
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Post by Figgles on Mar 6, 2021 18:22:02 GMT
Nope. You clearly misunderstood what i said. Yes, I found it a bit odd at the time, when after I invited you to help me moderate my new forum that you took that initiative without first asking, but at that time, I did ultimately appreciate the input. I figured it was just your enthusiasm showing and I saw it as kind of endearing actually that you were so excited to be part of things. But I DID remember that happening the first time, and this time around, I wanted to choose the colors/style for my forum and keep them that way. Ah...you are confirming my suspicions that you were pissed when I started digging into and posting data/traffic numbers and suggesting it made more sense to continue on here. Just in case you are interested, that is YOUR ego, fully engaged and in play. Something seemed off to me when you outright ignored so many of my posts as I tried to engage you in conversation about that. Fwiw, Rowan and I were already not seeing eye to eye here on this forum. Our disagreement was a carry-over from here, not something new that cropped up there. Your suggestion that he 'made me upset a lot,' is silliness. Had your forum actually taken off I would have been more than happy to stay there. It didn't and I had several people in the know, tell me that in the long run, the vast differential in terms of thread/post count between forums, meant this one would for some time be the recipient of the highest traffic. You had an idea about creating a new forum with a name that you thought would create a whole lot of traffic quite quickly. You were wrong. Not a huge deal, but I know you don't like being wrong...ego never does.
You are absolutely free to continue on with your forum. I actually think it's a good idea to keep it going simultaneously with this one....keep posting there....I will too... and I told you how I got some new guests to come to this forum....try it. I have had no wish to create any forum, I will never have any wish to create any forum. Since Reefs was suppressing us, your initiation towards new forum made me like it very much. But at one point in time, I realized that this forum guest count was low, so I thought that the name of the forum is somehow making people identify the forum, that's the only reason I thought of creating the forum, nothing else. Even right now, I am perfectly okay to engage in ST, it was actually good place because many people keep on showing up(even though only few people are actually arguing) but I want a freedom to speak but I sense that I somehow am missing there. But actually in the time of Peter, I somehow find that it was full of fighting and writing nonsense but in the time of Reefs, forum seems to be Peaceful but too much of suppression so I don't want to go there unless I find some highly interesting post come along the way.
Okay, well it seems as though despite our recent clashes, we are ultimately on the same page. I too just want a place (or places) where I can freely engage in these conversations. Do you think it's possible we can clear the decks & start fresh from here? Even though we don't see eye to eye, I DO respect your viewpoint and appreciate your enthusiasm of expression. |
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When I changed the forum settings, She told me to play around it, she encouraged me at that time, she did not even show up a little sadness, infact I sent the personal message by asking whether she bothers the setting changes since I made it without the consent of her, she replied me that it's absolutely not a problem and asked me to explore more. Now she is telling me that I have done that without her consent so it bothered her and due to that, she has removed certain power. You know exactly what happened is I have created a forum and when she came there, rowan talked so differently and because of that it made her upset a lot and realized the mistake of creating a forum in which she is not in ultimate control from that moment onwards she started thinking of coming back to gab,once Enigma sent the message that let's back up things from there, she completely started convincing me to come back here, since I refused in the beginning, she came here and removed my admin power and also she doesn't want the colour settings which was created by me because she thought anyway I am not returning to this forum why to keep the settings which I have set here. These are all complete ego play! Yesterday I was expressing my disagreement with someNothing without expressing any anger, but she started telling me that I am arrogant, don't know what has happened to her in these days. Now I am thinking we should have continued there in our new forum. 
Ultimately, we have to accept people, exactly as they are. It can be sad when you fall out with people you were tight with at one time. Regardless of what we realize, or how good we get at creating, we're all only human, for as long as we're drawing breath.
