Enigma
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Post by Enigma on Mar 8, 2018 0:57:20 GMT
Yeah, I can't help but see it as immature but beyond that, when one chooses one desire over another, letting go of the other desire that was not chosen is the natural, sane thing to do. Anything else leads to internal conflict, which is the whole point in discussing it to begin with. I actually had no idea there would be disagreement about this, much less nearly universal disagreement. Yeah....I fully get it now. It's the internal conflict that's the important factor in what you call 'split mind.' Two desires that each play out in different moments, absent any emotional conflict, no problem. Egg-zackly.
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Post by Enigma on Mar 8, 2018 1:02:48 GMT
Actually, a sense of two separate persons, each wanting a different outcome and each struggle to have their way, which is the split mind. Ah...Yes...Two! ....Two petulant, willful children, who somehow think they should be able to have their cake and eat it too. ...who somehow have not grasped and/or made peace with the fact that experience need not fulfill their every momentary arising whim, in order for them to be okay. Andrew doesn't talk about it this way, but he creates two when he talks about feeling needing to say something and is independent of thought until it's had it's say.
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Post by Figgles on Mar 8, 2018 17:00:00 GMT
Ah...Yes...Two! ....Two petulant, willful children, who somehow think they should be able to have their cake and eat it too. ...who somehow have not grasped and/or made peace with the fact that experience need not fulfill their every momentary arising whim, in order for them to be okay. Andrew doesn't talk about it this way, but he creates two when he talks about feeling needing to say something and is independent of thought until it's had it's say. Yeah......pretty strange indeed the way he personifies a feeling, as though it has a mind of it's own and is running the show. It explains much though. Your response in the convo below was perfect: Ya mean feelings don't have needs and wants and stamp their little stubborn feet when they don't get their own way?? TBH, It's become clear that Andrew is largely unconscious to what's going on within, but I had no idea it was to that extent that he was divorcing himself specifically from feeling, so overtly or obviously. Wow.
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Post by Figgles on Mar 8, 2018 17:10:50 GMT
Bingo! (with a big fat cherry on top ) This is the crux of it all when it comes to supposed knowledge of the suffering of the person/animal who appears....it is their own direct knowledge of suffering that leads Andrew/Reefs and all of that ilk, to think they know that the appearance of (what looks to them to be) misery on the part of the appearing other, is in fact, such.
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Post by Enigma on Mar 8, 2018 18:00:45 GMT
Bingo! (with a big fat cherry on top ) This is the crux of it all when it comes to supposed knowledge of the suffering of the person/animal who appears....it is their own direct knowledge of suffering that leads Andrew/Reefs and all of that ilk, to think they know that the appearance of (what looks to them to be) misery on the part of the appearing other, is in fact, such. Yeah, it's the nature of illusions to look like logical, common sense no-brainers that can be proven with video evidence and scientific studies, and so the challenge is to see through them by questioning their foundations through realization and 'looking within' to see how we create them. We don't really have to guess about the nature of suffering because we personally are the cause of our own, and we can see how we do that. We can see the difference between our own sense of existing and our own min/body identification, and we can see how that relates to suffering. We can also see how feeling arises, what triggers and sustains it, and how it moves in the body. Even turning to sources we trust like Seth, A/H and the sages, is not looking within and inevitably we'll form the same sort of illusions around what we hear.
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Post by Enigma on Mar 8, 2018 18:03:54 GMT
Bingo! (with a big fat cherry on top ) This is the crux of it all when it comes to supposed knowledge of the suffering of the person/animal who appears....it is their own direct knowledge of suffering that leads Andrew/Reefs and all of that ilk, to think they know that the appearance of (what looks to them to be) misery on the part of the appearing other, is in fact, such. I was reading over there early this morning. Reefs, in a convo with, Andrew, seems to 'THINK" he needs to babysit enigma. That should be fun to watch. Well, somebody needs to straighten me out, what with all my 'he said/she said' nonsense.
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Post by Figgles on Mar 8, 2018 18:55:28 GMT
Exactly. Don't know what Reefs is referencing at all when he says he checked your post dumpster and saw that you assassinated those terms.
Exactly. Well said.
This whole conflating of Consciousness/Awareness with 'being conscious and aware' dealy, as I see it, is very telling in terms of what's actually been realized (or in this case, what hasn't).
Has one who says he's realized that it's all consciousness, and he is none-other than that, actually Self-realized if he ascribes the quality of 'being self aware' to every object that arises in/of consciousness? I don't see how that could be.
The actual realization that there is but One, there is no separation and that I am not-other than that, has inherent in it, the seeing that that One 'thing/substrate' is not at all a 'thing' and thus, it absent all assignation of 'quality.'
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Post by Figgles on Mar 8, 2018 19:10:12 GMT
I'd also like to mention that through sharing your Satsang & relationship with Marie stories, you've also clearly relayed that it is precisely because of the 'absence' of all sorts of stuff, that the love you experience with and for her, continues to flows so unimpeded.
Seems to me it could even be said that it's in the absence of fixed 'knowledge' you have about each other in general, that there is the absence then of fixed expectation re: the other, that allows that love to so freely flow. (love without an object).
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Post by Figgles on Mar 8, 2018 19:18:16 GMT
You know suffering happens due to directly knowing suffering. And yes, it is not wrong to say that that is therefore 'your' suffering. (yes, pronouns are allowed, even after SR ) But appearing people and animals are only ever known to you via experience....they never become anything more than an appearance to you. ("You" being the equivalent of Being/existence). Thus, the only way you know of their suffering is via what appears to your senses, what you see them doing, what you hear, feel...( includes intuition). All of that is of the realm of experience...and so long as you are talking about an appearing human/person, you are engaging with experience/appearance.
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Post by Figgles on Mar 8, 2018 19:36:28 GMT
Seriously? You obviously still do not get what's being said when the totality of experiential content, each seemingly individualized appearance, is being referenced as 'dream stuff.' For one to be capable of 'lying' or 'being mistaken' they would have to actually BE consciously self aware....actually experiencing. When another tells me he is experiencing, is self aware, smells something nice, that he feels cold, or in pain, that is part and parcel of the dream. While lucid, I've also had night time dream characters tell me that they are 'real'....just because they say so does not have me any more or less convinced because their saying so is also arising within the content of the dream...it's part and parcel of the dream 'content.'
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