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Post by Figgles on Feb 22, 2024 20:19:50 GMT
Yuppers....or even a 4 yr. old who had gotten caught up in the heady momentum of physically acting out in anger...
Even if/when the witness position has an imagined "me entity/object/someone/something" imagined along with it, it's still the perfect place to look "at" other mind-ego content that is no quite as good as that SVP, at hiding itself.
For anyone truly interested in looking 'at' mind content, it's gold...even IF tarnished by an imagined entity.
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Post by Figgles on Apr 16, 2024 18:46:57 GMT
Becoming consciously aware as to mind's content really must be the first step in terms of "seeking for Truth."
If there's an absence of genuine interest in looking deeply and critically towards mind's most sacred of ideas, then the required sincerity is plain and simply not there.
Seeking that has sincere, genuine interest inherent to it, that includes and embraces the possibility of loss of that which presently provides comfort, is heading in the "right" direction...seeking that is devoid of that, is really nothing more than spinning the wheels of self-betterment, which is fine, but it's important to see the difference between the two.
A sincere interest towards Truth embraces Truth at all costs, even IF that means losing something that is experientially comforting. Anytime we have folks refusing to continue along with a convo where there views are being civilly, directly challenged, it's crystal clear that "fear" has risen up and if there ever actually was sincerity there, it is no longer in play. That moment of "cut and run and hide/shut down the convo," means ego/mind has won again.
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Post by Figgles on May 26, 2024 20:06:34 GMT
That's intersting...and even moreso, that ultimately, the sense that moving on was the right move, won out, after all.
For whatever it's worth, I think the Byron Katie process is great as self-help practice/tool for those mired in negative emotions, as well as a good tool for looking directly AT beliefs and more importantly, personal judgments. Anything that help a person come to greater clarity at to what's going on in mind, is a good thing, imo, and adds to a state of being as consciously aware and present as possible.
Short of fully awakening to the dream, this is the next best thing....being awake to the consensus trance and consciously aware of mind's machinations.
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Post by Figgles on May 26, 2024 20:17:06 GMT
It sounds then as though despite her seeing that no idea is true, she's adopted the belief that all that happens within her experience, is serving her in an ultimately, positive way..?
So that one idea, for her, remains "true" and she does not challenge it.
And really, if that belief/idea is abidingly and unwaveringly, at the forefront of mind, held to be the highest truth about life, then regardless of what happens, it will get framed within that belief system.
As far as beliefs go, in terms of the propensity of an idea to make for a better/worse dream, I'd say it's pretty darned good idea/belief to hold to...if you can!
That said, it is still a position "in mind/of mind," and as such, ultimately, is empty and devoid of Truth. But I guess for her, as a relatively held idea, she takes it and runs with it as far as it will take her.
Whereas for most who see through the entirety of the dream-scape, to see the emptiness, there are no ideas/beliefs "about the hows/whys" of life, that get held onto like that.
In terms of having a better dream, I don't think there's a better ontology/belief system, really...'cause regardless of what appears, it's accepted, allowed, embraced and even, loved/wanted by the experiential me character/person...all because they believe, that if it's appearing/happening, then it is for "my personal good/betterment." Regardless of what happens, mind immediately frames it within that belief that says "it's for my highest good."
And yes, as you allude to, in that there is no room at all for the impetus/desire to "create/control" outcomes, such as there is in the interest/practice of LOA/deliberate creation.
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Post by Figgles on May 28, 2024 17:32:10 GMT
You do not need to waver from this present moment though, to look at/see the thoughts/beliefs that lie central to the imminently arising anger/grief/fear.
Deciphering the erroneous beliefs behind imminently arising anger, for example, does not equal denial, suppression or ignoring.
While it's important not to vilify feelings indicative of negative judgments, it's also important not to glorify them.
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Post by Figgles on Jun 10, 2024 15:01:19 GMT
The distinction between an absence of Absolute knowing and "doubt," is not subtle at all. The former is inherent to SR...to seeing through all experiential content, the latter, is relative, but it's what gets the 'seeking for beyond' movement in motion.
The initial recognition that I may not be able to access what is "actually/fundamentally so" via mind, is the "doubt" being referenced. It applies to those still mired in the dream-scape. Not to realization itself. The absence of knowing that is inherent to realization does not equal doubt, wondering, the continuation of an answered question.
Yes.
A "finder" knows that some beliefs are outright delusions, illusions that must be seen through for freedom to be, while other's empty as they still may be of Truth/existence, they can still be said to be 'relatively true.'
The belief in an SVP is one such "belief" that must be seen through, not merely seen to be empty. There is NO SVP...it's only ever imagined. However, there does appear a me character, you characters, and so long as those are realized to be absent inherent existence in their own right, all good.
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Post by Figgles on Aug 4, 2024 17:51:08 GMT
In terms of becoming a more conscious, mature, high-functioning adult human, this provides a wonderful opportunity for clarity. Look "into" what's really going on in mind when a supposed "intention" to feel your breathing coincides with mind wandering away from that into some other thought. It's clear, there really in that instant of wandering was NOT a pure "intent/interest" to focus on/feel breath or that's what would have happened.
We're real good at kidding ourselves in that regard...we "think" we truly "want" to focus in a particular way but really, we're simply "thinking" we "should" focus in a certain way so that the particular outcome we are truly desiring, will manifest.
In a given moment where there is pure interest/intent upon feeling breath, plain and simply, feeling breath is what's gonna happen.
This is where that convo about "split-mind" comes into play. What's at that helm of that is a failure to BE conscious of mind's content/machinations...a failure to truly become aware of, see and acknowledge what's really going on in terms of highest interest/intent.
Folks that are completely and fully clear about all that are those ones who don't waver between espoused interests/intents and actions. They say they are interested in getting fit or changing lifestyle and lo and behold, that's precisely what unfolds. The split-mind folks are the ones that wave and struggle...but what they're really struggling with is the dicotomy between what they think they "should" want and what they actually DO want.
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Post by Figgles on Aug 8, 2024 17:05:11 GMT
Some astute observations here Gopal. Spiritual forums reveal much about their participants via their engagement style. As you say, most who engage DO via their sharings, present their philosophy, experience and realizations as they engage in dialogue. It's rare to just come to a spiritual forum to challenge the ideas of others while staunchly witholding the meat of your own views/positions.
There's plenty of folks who balk at having their views directly challenged but even those folks convey their basic stance/ontology....what we don't see so much is someone who holds personal views tightly to their vest but on the other hand, pokes and prods at the views of others.
I didn't see Gopal express frustration....he really just expressed an observation. He didn't even express personal judgment about the fact that in all these years, you've refrained from directly sharing your views. He simply that he's observed that lack of expression in your posts.
The fact that you did not at all address his point speaks volumes. Folks often think if they just refuse to acknowledge a point has been made and a question has been asked related to that, that they remain free and clear in terms of relaying any information, but in actuality, that failure to offer an answer, that failure to once again share any information, is itself an answer.
It takes courage to engage openly on a public spiritual forum, to share one's innermost gleanings, insights and pointers to realizations, so I do get why sometimes folks withhold, but what's really odd is when there's an absence of courage to share in that regard but somehow there is the presence of confidence (arrogance) to, in the face of that failure to share, poke and prod at the views of others.
You approach everyone elses posts guns-a-blazing, Sharon, but when it comes to espousing your own views, nothing. Now, if we want to talk about "powerful tools for transformation," sitting with that, looking within with sincere and earnest interest, most certainly fits that bill.
It's more than fine on a spirituality forum supposedly dedicated to Truth to challenge the views of others, but that must balanced out with an equal confidence to also share your own views and hold them up so that those YOU challenge, can, if they deem fit, also challenge yours.
You're "playing it safe" Sharon, whilst also fulfilling your interest in poking and prodding at other viewpoints. That deserves some inquiry.
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Post by Figgles on Aug 22, 2024 0:03:42 GMT
If there's a thorough examination of mind's content underway, then surely that is not "sitting in silence"? Doesn't silence mean an absence of minding...a resting in being that is absent mind-based activity such as "examination"?
A thorough examination of mind's content sounds much more like "inquiry."
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Post by Figgles on Aug 26, 2024 20:23:07 GMT
So that would mean then, that when you're annoyed by someone on a forum because they address you in a manner that you find to be disrespectful/argumentative, and you admonish them to change their style of engagement, what you really should have done instead is to inquire into your own psyche?
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