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Post by Figgles on Nov 8, 2017 21:02:51 GMT
I engaged in a side-splitting discussion with my husband and kids last night regarding the issue of bathroom habits and privacy or lack thereof when it comes to long term romantic relationships....and figured I'd run the topic by the forum and see what folks have to say (or not..haha). My husband and I have always kept these things very private....no gas passing on purpose in front of each other.....no chatting amiably together as one of us takes a dump. Doors remain closed tightly.....in 18 yrs. of marriage, never a breach in this interest to keep those things private. Shockingly, as I speak to other couples about this, I find that not all feel this way. Seems all sorts of loving couples are farting and crapping in front of each other without a care in the world, and don't feel at all that it affects their romantic interest in each other. I've even seen couples bedrooms where they've got an open concept bathroom, including a toilet, right there, out in the open, close enough where their amorous spouse might gaze into their eyes prior to a romantic interlude, as the other fills the bowl. I seriously just cannot fathom this!! Are we the abnormal ones.....anyone care to share?  |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 2, 2017 14:27:41 GMT
I engaged in a side-splitting discussion with my husband and kids last night regarding the issue of bathroom habits and privacy or lack thereof when it comes to long term romantic relationships....and figured I'd run the topic by the forum and see what folks have to say (or not..haha). My husband and I have always kept these things very private....no gas passing on purpose in front of each other.....no chatting amiably together as one of us takes a dump. Doors remain closed tightly.....in 18 yrs. of marriage, never a breach in this interest to keep those things private. Shockingly, as I speak to other couples about this, I find that not all feel this way. Seems all sorts of loving couples are farting and crapping in front of each other without a care in the world, and don't feel at all that it affects their romantic interest in each other. I've even seen couples bedrooms where they've got an open concept bathroom, including a toilet, right there, out in the open, close enough where their amorous spouse might gaze into their eyes prior to a romantic interlude, as the other fills the bowl. I seriously just cannot fathom this!! Are we the abnormal ones.....anyone care to share? I totally get your point here. Yep, being too intimate kills intimacy. On the other hand...I think it is first world luxus to be able to avoid those noices and odors the loved one is making. Under other circumstances, under less wealthy living circumstances, it's impossible to avoid to get to know the loved ones more intimately than one wishes to. So...NO...you're not abnormal! |
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Post by Figgles on Dec 4, 2017 4:08:29 GMT
I engaged in a side-splitting discussion with my husband and kids last night regarding the issue of bathroom habits and privacy or lack thereof when it comes to long term romantic relationships....and figured I'd run the topic by the forum and see what folks have to say (or not..haha). My husband and I have always kept these things very private....no gas passing on purpose in front of each other.....no chatting amiably together as one of us takes a dump. Doors remain closed tightly.....in 18 yrs. of marriage, never a breach in this interest to keep those things private. Shockingly, as I speak to other couples about this, I find that not all feel this way. Seems all sorts of loving couples are farting and crapping in front of each other without a care in the world, and don't feel at all that it affects their romantic interest in each other. I've even seen couples bedrooms where they've got an open concept bathroom, including a toilet, right there, out in the open, close enough where their amorous spouse might gaze into their eyes prior to a romantic interlude, as the other fills the bowl. I seriously just cannot fathom this!! Are we the abnormal ones.....anyone care to share? I totally get your point here. Yep, being too intimate kills intimacy. On the other hand... I think it is first world luxus to be able to avoid those noices and odors the loved one is making. Under other circumstances, under less wealthy living circumstances, it's impossible to avoid to get to know the loved ones more intimately than one wishes to. So...NO...you're not abnormal! Yes, good point. (and thank you  ) The couple that has the open toilet pretty much right in their bedroom, met when they were living in a campground....sharing a small tent for months, so no doubt, they 'broke the ice' early and then continued on in a similar fashion. ...after all, can't put the cat back in the bag once it's out. |
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Post by shitaka on Dec 12, 2017 15:42:27 GMT
No. These people need to remodel their house.
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Post by Figgles on Dec 13, 2017 21:17:30 GMT
No. These people need to remodel their house. Lol...perfectly said. Thanks Shitaka.  |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2017 11:56:16 GMT
I totally get your point here. Yep, being too intimate kills intimacy. On the other hand... I think it is first world luxus to be able to avoid those noices and odors the loved one is making. Under other circumstances, under less wealthy living circumstances, it's impossible to avoid to get to know the loved ones more intimately than one wishes to. So...NO...you're not abnormal! Yes, good point. (and thank you ) The couple that has the open toilet pretty much right in their bedroom, met when they were living in a campground....sharing a small tent for months, so no doubt, they 'broke the ice' early and then continued on in a similar fashion. ...after all, can't put the cat back in the bag once it's out. Maybe that's just their fetish. Like other people wear pink rubber-dresses in the bedroom or black leather pants or high-heels or cowboy boots... |
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Post by Figgles on Dec 14, 2017 18:19:19 GMT
Yes, good point. (and thank you ) The couple that has the open toilet pretty much right in their bedroom, met when they were living in a campground....sharing a small tent for months, so no doubt, they 'broke the ice' early and then continued on in a similar fashion. ...after all, can't put the cat back in the bag once it's out. Maybe that's just their fetish. Like other people wear pink rubber-dresses in the bedroom or black leather pants or high-heels or cowboy boots... Haha....maybe....ya never do know!! |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2017 18:25:53 GMT
Maybe that's just their fetish. Like other people wear pink rubber-dresses in the bedroom or black leather pants or high-heels or cowboy boots... Haha....maybe....ya never do know!! eww. (That wasn't in my vocabulary until about 20 years ago...) |
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Post by Figgles on Dec 14, 2017 18:33:19 GMT
Haha....maybe....ya never do know!! eww. (That wasn't in my vocabulary until about 20 years ago...) |
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Post by krsnaraja on Feb 8, 2020 0:29:00 GMT
I engaged in a side-splitting discussion with my husband and kids last night regarding the issue of bathroom habits and privacy or lack thereof when it comes to long term romantic relationships....and figured I'd run the topic by the forum and see what folks have to say (or not..haha). My husband and I have always kept these things very private....no gas passing on purpose in front of each other.....no chatting amiably together as one of us takes a dump. Doors remain closed tightly.....in 18 yrs. of marriage, never a breach in this interest to keep those things private. Shockingly, as I speak to other couples about this, I find that not all feel this way. Seems all sorts of loving couples are farting and crapping in front of each other without a care in the world, and don't feel at all that it affects their romantic interest in each other. I've even seen couples bedrooms where they've got an open concept bathroom, including a toilet, right there, out in the open, close enough where their amorous spouse might gaze into their eyes prior to a romantic interlude, as the other fills the bowl. I seriously just cannot fathom this!! Are we the abnormal ones.....anyone care to share? Farting is better than being apart Bowels moved three times a day is possible if one fills his stomach to the max though as if indulging in gluttony during breakfast, lunch & dinner. It`s an art of ridding bowel wastes by trying to look fat than thin. Others to become thin, only eat very little so they can move their bowels at least once or every 2-3 days. This is probably the reason why there are restrooms exclusively designed either for comfort ( constipation ) & discomfort ( diarrhea ). |
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